ROMANTIC
DREAMS
DR
UMAR AZAM BA PHD DCL DIP.FJ DIP.IM
MANCHESTER, UK
JANUARY
2003
INTRODUCTION
The fact that beautiful, holy dreams can be Messages of reward
from Allah Most High has already been explained elsewhere
[please see DREAMS IN ISLAM, VISIONS OF PARADISE and DREAMS OF
REWARD IN PARADISE on this site]. This paper presents
romantic dreams and seeks to show that Allah Almighty will
bestow loving dreams on the one who believes and does good
deeds. In the selection of dreams below, for example,
the following good deeds led to romantic dreams [this is not a
complete list of all categories of good deeds, just a
sample]:
using technology for the cause of Islam
[Dream No1]
Islamic
scholarship and research [2, 8, 11, 16, 23, 26]
caring for the
family [4]
compassion for
children [5]
distributing
Islamic literature [7, 14, 19]
kindness to
wives [18]
tutoring pupils
with dedication [20, 21]
sacrificing
romantic love [22]
giving for
charity [32]
Those who believe know that everyone is being tested by God in
this life. When they believe and work
righteousness, the will get feedback from God in the
form of loving dreams [in contrast to nightmares!], which
confirm that Allah Most High is pleased with them and that
they will gain the Reward of Love in the life
Hereafter.
DREAM NO
1
DATE NOT RECORDED
I had a dream in
which I saw the image of a most beautiful and unknown wife on
the screen of a computer monitor. The dream gave me the
message that she has 'lips of claret'.
CONTEXT
I had used my
computer to list the addresses of readers who had received a
free copy of my work PRACTICAL ISLAMIC ADVICE [now on this
website].
DREAM NO
2
JANUARY 1997
I dreamt that
the Bodleian Library [University of Oxford] is haunted by
ghosts. I saw the apparition of an elegant lady who
looked like Anne Boleyn [one of King Henry VIII's wives]
floating downwards above a modern escalator in the
Library. She was wearing a lengthy, white dress and,
despite being a spectre, looked very pretty! I was sure
that other ghosts were present in the Library, though I didn't
see them!
CONTEXT
My writings are
part of the Bodleian Library stock. I had framed a
letter from Library staff which informed me of
the cataloguing details of my manuscripts: title, class
number and date of addition. Sometimes, at
night, before falling asleep, I used to look at this
particular letter, and others too, for inspiration to initiate
more academic work.
DREAM NO
3 DATE
NOT RECORDED
i] I was playing croquet
with an unknown wife.
ii] I was playing
an unknown game, with an unknown wife, which entailed sliding
a ball, very fast, across a kind of machine.
CONTEXT
I was
always working: tutoring pupils, writing Islamic books and
working on the computer. Dreams such as
this relieved some of my stress!
DREAM NO
4
SATURDAY 7 DECEMBER 1996
I was in the
company of an unknown wife, beside a cosy open
fire. We were 'in the middle of nowhere': in some kind
of wood. [1,3] It was dark and we were camping outdoors,
like Robin Hood and his merry men. [2] She
was cooking whole sacks of foodstuffs in front
of the fire! In fact, she was burning her cooking: she
didn't just burn the corners of one sack of
foodstuff, but the sack itself! I chided her by
shouting at her not to overdo the task!
[In the next
scene] she gave me a piece of paper with historical, English,
calligraphic writing on it. [3] It was a list of various
foodstuffs and the vitamins that they contained. [4]
Ithought the paper looked as ifs contents were very
compassionate and important. I had decided to photocopy
[5] both sides of this paper, then the dream
finished.
CONTEXT
[1,
3] I got the feeling when I awoke that this
dream had been set in the Middle Ages, England [also conveyed
by calligraphy].
[2] We
were in the wood with our own troop, just like Robin
Hood!
[4] My
brother, Zaheer, used to encourage me to think of the family
as a whole [rather than just of myself!] and to buy fruit and
vegetables from the wholesale market from my own money.
He used to say that I had spent my money well because of the
nutritious value of the produce. God is Happy if you
help your loved ones.
[5] I used
to photocopy my Islamic documents regularly.
DREAM NO
5
1996
I dreamt that a
Hindu girl gave me an amorous and extremely passionate kiss
without her parents knowing! It was a very inventive and
sophisticated kiss: she touched my nose with her index finger
temptingly first, and then sensitively touched my face with
that same index finger, before giving that kiss. This
happened in her own family's house.
CONTEXT
Polytheists are,
of course, destined for Hell. I had taught a Hindu girl
named Setal. I liked Setal and her innocence, and did
not want her to go to Hell in the Hereafter. So I
explained to her about Islam, and gave her my book DREAMS IN
ISLAM to read.
DREAM NO
6
WEDNESDAY 18 DECEMBER 1996
I was climbing a
ladder and so, too, was my unknown wife. She was
actually higher than I, and I saw her shoe's heel above
my head!
INTERPRETATION
'Ascending:
Seeing oneself ascending ordinarily [as in real life] means
one will attain honour, dignity and an elevated
position. Such ascension is indeed an enviable
one. In general, ascension or climbing represents one's
honour or dignity in worldly and religious matters. At
other times, climbing a mountain or tree suggests that the
dreamer will be granted protection against calamities of all
sorts'. IBN SIREEN, p.42
'Climbing the
Upper Portions of a House: If a person sees himself
entering an unknown house [and climbing its upper portions],
it means he will marry some woman who will be a means of
prosperity for him'. IBN SIREEN, p.44-45
DREAM NO
7
SUNDAY 8 DECEMBER 1996
I saw a group of
college students. One of them was my beautiful, unknown
wife. I asked her, 'Are you pure [clean]?'
CONTEXT
One or two
students at Preston College had been criticising me for
handing out my PRACTICAL ISLAMIC ADVICE booklets [now on this
site] to all the College's students, whether they were in
a state of wudhu or not. I argued that if I
didn't give the booklets out at random in the College, then
they would't be given out at all, as I did not know the
addresses of the students!
DREAM NO
8
TUESDAY 7 APRIL 1998
I dreamt that I
was teaching a [beautiful and intelligent] girl in
her room at her girls-only boarding school, in
Lahore, Pakistan! Her little brother was in the room
with her, and also her caring auntie came to meet me.
Her aunt, who respected me very much, looked just like
her!
DREAM NO
10
DATE NOT RECORDED
My
beautiful, unknown wife had just returned from Glasgow.
She was sitting a little distance away from me on a settee,
and she had turned her body and face sideways towards my
mother, who was seated on an adjacent settee, and to whom she
was talking in confidence and with great
emotion. The wife had brought worrying and terrible
news from that city. She revealed that some
of the [Pakistani] Muslim men of Glasgow were severe, evil
characters who were being extremely cruel to their
wives. In one case, she revealed, a bloodthirsty husband
had been so cruel to his wife that he had cut off his
sister-in-law's leg below the knee. * My wife had a
very compassionate and caring face, and she was genuinely
touched and concerned.
INTERPRETATION
Any
dream whose content involves the cutting off of a limb means
severing relations. Hence, the husbands must be
forbidding their wives from meeting their sisters and other
loved ones. Allah is angry with those husbands who
violate the rights of their wives. Marrying a woman does
not mean separating her from her own kith and
kin!
DREAM NO
11
THURSDAY 24 JULY 1997
I was
sound asleep in my flat, but was awakened by the ringing of
the door-bell. I was so sleepy that I wondered whether I
should get up and open the door! But my youngest sister
had already opened the door! A very attractive lady, an
unknown wife, stood on the doorstep. She said, "I just
called to see who had written [the book] DREAMS IN
ISLAM [what he looked like]" My sister asked her to come
in. I had got up by then and I also asked her in.
But she was very shy! She went on her way. I
shouted at her in frustration, "Now that you've woken me up,
you might as well come in!" But she didn't obey
me!
DREAM NO
12
1996
There
was an attractive lady who was with a clergyman. They
were both husband and wife. She absolutely understood my
radio interview.
CONTEXT
This
dream seemed to have a historical context: judging from the
way the couple were dressed, it was set in England
in Victorian times. This suggests that the
clergy in that period were very efficient at propagating
religion. I had been wondering if my performances on
radio were any good and this dream gave me the accurate answer
I needed.
DREAM NO
13 WEDNESDAY
15 JANUARY 2003
I dreamt
that all the girls I have ever been in love with * now feel,
after being separated from me, that that phase of their lives
of which I was a part was a dream - they had
dreamt of meeting me and being with
me.
* Pure
love - we did not do anything contrary to
Islam
INTERPRETATION
Their lives are
not as pleasant, or ideal, now as they were when I was a
part of their lives!
DREAM NO
14
TUESDAY 21 JANUARY 2003
I dreamt
that while I was giving out advertisements promoting my
website in the Oxford Road Building of THE JOHN RYLANDS
UNIVERSITY LIBRARY OF MANCHESTER [JRULM], one of the
proposed female student recipients and
I automatically hugged each other - naturally and
impulsively!
CONTEXT
In
January 2003, I really did distribute my adverts in the
JRULM and some of the girl students were
somewhat flustered to see me. When I first
approached them, they thought I was romantically interested in
them. Only after seeing my sheets did they realise that
I was doing Islamic work!
DREAM NO
15
WEDNESDAY 22 MARCH 1995
I was
tutoring a pupil named Aisha and she was answering certain
questions in a complicated exercise. Then I asked her to
read the TRANSLATION OF THE ISLAMIC WEDDING SERMON in my
booklet PRACTICAL ISLAMIC ADVICE [now on this site], copy it
all out and then to sign her name underneath it! I was
licking my lips and rubbing my hands and saying, "When I have
your signature, you will become lawful to me: you will be my
wife, and then I will kiss you!" But Aisha tricked me by
doing my signature after writing out the Wedding
Sermon and I pretended to sound disappointed [though I was
happy and joking!] and I said to her: "Ow, what did you do
my signature for?" Aisha was smiling and looked
happy that she had tricked me!
Note: To read the English
translation of the ISLAMIC WEDDING SERMON, please see the
introduction to the 'POETRY' section of this
website.
DREAM
NO 16 WEDNESDAY
29 FEBRUARY 1997
I was
coming down the steps of a college building and a beautiful,
young lady [my unknown wife] was standing on ground level,
behind me. She gazed at me with a romantic gaze, as if
filled with awe, love and admiration for me. I seemed to
be making my way out after giving an Islamic Lecture.
The college seemed to exude an air of importance. It was
'home-time': one or two students were 'milling about', on
their way home.
DREAM NO
17
SATURDAY 3 AUGUST 1997
I saw a
packet of foodstuffs manufactured by the 'KP' Company, like a
large box of 'Kellogs' cereal. On the back of the box,
there was writing, split into two sections. The first
section was a promise by KP to produce ' vegetarian'
brands, suitable for the Muslim community. The second
piece was a comprehensive paragraph of advice about weddings
generally, and aimed at me specifically! It was
exhorting me to think of marrying some wife, and confirming
that a wedding was the most appropriate action for me to
take. Although both pieces of writing were in full
colour pleasing to the eye, the colour of the wedding
advice was superior. Also, it was written in
beautiful writing!
CONTEXT
I had
been writing to leading manufacturers of confectionary and
foodstuffs, including: MARS, GOLDEN WONDER, WALKERS, NESTLE,
BRITISH BAKERIES, TREBOR BASSETT, KP and WARNER LAMBERT.
I had also talked about the subject of halal and
haram foodstuffs on BBC RADIO LANCASHIRE, BBC RADIO
GMR and BBC RADIO DERBY, and had produced a report
entitled something like+: 'PRODUCTS SUITABLE FOR A HALAL
DIET', which I distributed to individual Muslims. But it
quickly became out of date! However, a number of
people congratulated me on my efforts, saying that my
correspondence illustrated the need for Muslims to check
whether what they are eating is halal or
haram.
DREAM NO
18
JUNE 1997
I saw my
beautiful, unknown wife. She and I were intimate.
Then the word 'orange' was mentioned.
CONTEXT
My
father had become very ill and he was admitted to a ward in
hospital in the 'orange zone' [colours being used for
admistrative purposes]. I visited him regularly and took
him milk, tea, meals and newspapers. I also gave
money a few times.
DREAM NO
19 DATE
NOT
RECORDED
I dreamt
that I called at a house to collect a comment on my PRACTICAL
ISLAMIC ADVICE booklet from a reader and my beautiful,
unknown wife answered the door! [I
had forgotten the rest of the dream when I woke
up!]
DREAM NO
20
THURSDAY 23 JANUARY 2003
I dreamt
of a beautiful, unknown wife whose face resembled that of my
former tuition pupil, Zobia Choudry. There was plenty of
friction between me and this wife in the dream! One of
the things she did wrong was to throw my GCSE maths text book
under my car while the car was stationary in traffic! I
chided her for this reckless action! [She did
something else wrong too, but I forgot what this was when I
woke up.] In another scene, we were in a queue with a
youth who did not tell me who he was, but I guessed that it
was her brother. I was going to buy three cups of tea
for us. I said to him, "She's like this because her dad
has spoiled her!"
CONTEXT
I used
to photocopy pages from this book for pupils' exercises, but
didn't charge them for the expense. The pupils' parents
kindly provided tea [and even meals] for me during
lessons. I have had rows with my tuition pupils and
their parents. In this dream, I was rowing with this
wife as well!
DREAM NO
21
DECEMBER 1991
I saw my
beautiful, unknown wife who looked very pleasing to me.
She was walking in the street, a little distance away from
me. [In the next scene] she was actually my wife and we
were both intimate. [In a fresh scene] I saw a copy of
an English comprehension book.
CONTEXT
I had bought
many copies of this comprehension book entitled: 'I Find
Out'. I lent these out to pupils and, soon, I
didn't even have one copy left! But I reckoned that,
even if the pupils did keep the book, this could only
do them good! I made do with other resources. This
dream suggests that Allah Almighty acknowledged that my act of
educational charity was a benevolent deed.
DREAM NO
22
1984
I saw the head
and shoulders of a fellow student at the University of
Manchester, a beautiful woman.
This was
a real-life miracle: when I awoke, there was mehndi
[henna] on the palms of both my hands! It was a
pale-yellow shade and partially covered the Mount of Venus,
and the Mount of Mars, on my palms. I actually washed
off the mehndi in the sink! It actually washed
off, so it was real ! It smelt
of the mehndi powder found in
shops too! I was 23 years old at the time of
this first incident. The mehndi actually came on
again in 1985, but this time there was only half of
the quantity covering my
palms.
CONTEXT
I wanted to
marry this woman but my wedding to her was not
destined because my parents forced me into an arranged
marriage which was to be a complete failure.
DREAM NO
23
17 JANUARY 1997 * 7 RAMADHAN 1416 A.H.
The kafirs
were very powerful and they made a film which mocked the
Islamic fact that any believer who visits the Prophet's [PBUM]
City of Medina will have his or her sins forgiven. There
was another untruth which misrepresented Islam perpetrated by
the film. The film itself was advertised on a roadside
billboard. But I climbed a ladder and, in great secret,
changed one of the kafir misrepresentations. I
was apprehensive that the kafirs would find out what
Ihad done. [In the next scene] I was attending a seminar
at University. Quite a few woman students were in the
room. I planted a passionate kiss on the soft and tender
cheek of one of these lady students: my beautiful,
unknown wife! Her skin was so tender that I wished I
could hold the kiss for several minutes! But I was
afraid that the other students would disapprove of what I was
doing [even though what I was doing had a subtle
authority and correctness about it!].
DREAM NO
24
SUNDAY 4 MAY 1997
I dreamt that
one of the readers of PRACTICAL ISLAMIC ADVICE [on this site]
found the booklet so emotional that she began to weep while
reading it. I myself have found the booklet that Ihave
often cried too. The dream recommended our marriage and
informed me that the reader lives in Birmingham.
CONTEXT
A reader named
Rahima Islam told me when I visited Fielden Park College,
West Didsbury, Manchester that my booklet had made her
weep. Booklets were distributed in Birmingham
and must have had a profound effect on some readers. One
such reader must have been the most
suitable person for me to marry, because of her pious
character, but unfortunately it was not to be.
DREAM NO
25
MONDAY 5 MAY 1997
I dreamt that I
appeared on BBC Television * and some female viewer
commented on my looks and remarked, "You are
beautiful!"
* To talk about
Islam and its aspects
INTERPRETATION
This dream
suggests beauty of character as well as beauty of
physical looks, Masha'Allah. This dream is telling the
future and informing me that I will be coming
on.
DREAM NO
26 SATURDAY
7 DECEMBER 1996
I was walking in
an area which was very unfamiliar. I noticed a path
which looked quite forbidding because I didn't know what it
would lead to. [In the next scene] I saw a magnificent,
palatial, important building. This is what the path led
to - it was a private school for girls, and its architecture
was superb. Outside this building, I met a beautiful
pupil of this School: my unknown wife! She was very
intelligent and capable and had an aura of respectibility and
superiority about her. I asked her why she wanted to
journey by train to the School when her home was so very
near. [She wanted to 'fit in' with the other
pupils.] She became angry when she heard this, and her
indignation was powerful! While giving some
unsatisfactory answer to me, she actually swore [not at me; to
give vent to her frustration] and I found that I was unable to
argue with her!
CONTEXT
I had this dream
in the days when I was helping my brother, Zaheer, prepare his
work VISION OF PARADISE [now on this site] for
publication.
DREAM NO
27
DATE NOT RECORDED
I dreamt that I
went to the garden of my pupil, Kamran Khan's, house and
smelled a flower.
INTERPRETATION
'If fragrant
flowers such as roses, jasmine, narcissus, marigold, daisies
etc. are seen detached from their stem, it means the dreamer
will lose his accumulated wealth. But if they are not,
it is a harbinger of a righteous son who will be good, honest
and righteous. How righteous he will be depends on the
intensity of the fragrance given off by such a flower."
IBN SIREEN, p.51
DREAM NO
28
DATE NOT RECORDED
My most
beautiful, mysterious and aristocratic wife was wearing a
sparkling,dark- blue, luxurious dress, made of
raindrops! She was in a library of some kind and
was very angry about something. She moved across
the library with determination and in a mood of great
fury.
CONTEXT
On my visit to
Huddersfield College on 14 November 1996, a student attempted
to interfere with my Islamic work. He urged fellow
students not to fill in the comments forms for
PRACTICAL ISLAMIC ADVICE [now on this site]. This made
me very cross.
DREAM NO
29
TUESDAY 13 MAY 1997
I called at a
certain house to collect readers' comments on PRACTICAL
ISLAMIC ADVICE [now on this site]. Two nineteen
year-olds lived there. I gave one girl a form to write
her comments on. When it came to giving the other one a
form, I noticed that I had run out of forms. I had
to walk back to my car to fetch more forms. She decided
to come with me. Also in the car were framed certificates
- genuine and pleasing comments from my readers
testifying that PRACTICAL ISLAMIC ADVICE had been invaluable
to them. But we found that the car's bonnet had
been covered with dirty streaks made by the malicious workers
from a nearby factory [I had carelessly parked the car on
waste grassland close to the factory]. When I
opened the boot, I got another shock - this time the
supervisor had smeared dirty streaks on two of my certificates
[they were in the boot because I was going to file copies in
my Archive]. The supervisor and workers had taken a
certain pleasure from this defilement! The young lady
who was with me took the two certificates away to clean
them. I was astonished that she cared to do so. I
realised that she must be of pious character, and felt that
she was the right kind of person to marry. I had
decided to marry her when the dream finished!
DREAM
NO 30
SATURDAY 4 APRIL 1998
I dreamt that I
was being tested by an elderly,
wise, Arabic-speaking man. He had a secretary, or
assistant, with him - my unknown wife. She was about
twenty years old, and her mother tongue was also Arabic.
I gave him a fact of Islam and he asked me the source of it
within Islam: it was a hadith [tradition] and I said it
could be from Bukhari [R.A] [he asked what number], or
from Muslim, Tirmidhi, Ibn Majah [R.A.] and so forth.
Whatever the source, he wanted the exact information
and I seemed unable to provide it! Then I recited the
following verses from Surah YaSin * to him:
"INNA ASHAABAL JANNATIL YAUMA FI SHUGHULIN FAAQIHOON, HUM WA
AZWAJOHUM....." (1)
Here I stopped,
but actually the verses carry on as follows:
"FI ZILAALIN
ALAL ARAAAIKI MUTTAQEEOON LA HUM FIHA FAAQIHATONWA LA HUM MAA
YADDAOON SALAAMUN QAULUM-MIR-RABBI RAHEEM".
(2)
Translation: "THOSE WHO ENTER THE
GARDEN ARE EMPLOYED IN MERRY-MAKING; THEY AND THEIR
WIVES [1]
RECLINE ON
THRONES RAISED HIGH; ON THEM THERE IS NO FEAR, NOR DO THEY
GRIEVE; THE WORD FROM A MERCIFUL LORD IS 'PEACE'
." [2]
Then the elderly
man and I had something to eat together [as if to bless the
entire DHIKR [Remembrance of Allah Most High & The
Hereafter].
CONTEXT
(1) As if
to emphasise what will happen to them and their wives [in
Paradise].
(2) This is the
very passage that I read, at times, before going to
sleep.
DREAM NO
31 25
SEPTEMBER 1997
I dreamt that
there was a wedding at the house of one of my
pupils.
INTERPRETATION
"Marriage.
Cure from all diseases and ailments." IBN SIREEN
p.139
DREAM NO
32 SATURDAY
13 SEPTEMBER 1997
First I
went into a charity shop [such as 'Scope']. Then [in the
next scene] I was giving out my booklet PRACTICAL ISLAMIC
ADVICE on the street to my beautiful unknown
wife. She was of mixed lineage - half Nepalese and half
some other nationality [I can't recall what]. She had
the same lineage as a leading Bollywood film actress and was
just as good looking! I took her to the charity shop to
buy her a wonderul head-scarf. The shop assistant, a
man, asked for an extraordinarily high price for the scarf:
�8! I gave the unknown wife the money secretly, and she
paid without embarrassment. Then, once outside,
I replaced the money she had spent. She wore the
scarf and then looked both beautiful and
religious. Although the head-scarf covered her head
and shoulders, it looked very holy, yet
fashionable, on her!
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CONCLUSION
"God
is Love and Love is God": this is a well-known defintion
of 'love'. It is a definition exemplified by romantic
dreams. A person cannot choose what he or she will dream
about: dreaming is a natural phenomenon. So if a person
is fortunate enough to benefit from romantic dreams, then
Allah Most High must be thanked and praised for bestowing such
loving dreams as a sample of the Divine Mercy
which the blessed will experience in the life
Hereafter.
BIBLIOGRAPHY
- THE MEANING OF THE
GLORIOUS QURAN
Translated by Abdullah Yusuf Ali
- DREAMS AND
INTERPRETATIONS
Ibn
Sireen
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
The author would like to
thank the following for comments and
suggestions: Taimur Zahid, Zaheer Azam, Asim Gafar,
and Falaq Sher..